Are financial advisors supposed to be upstanding citizens
of financial planning? Are we the beacon on the hill that does it all right? Do
we budget correctly, live within our means, save for college, and fund our
retirements? In theory, I would say yes. We are supposed to be all of those
things.
Unfortunately, we are human and are not perfect. Life is
not linear and we, like many of our clients, rarely go from point A to point B in a straight line. We encounter
curves, dips, and bumps along the way just like everyone else.
Like many of you, the first financial priority my wife and I established was to
plan for retirement. There will come a day when we
will stop working and we'll have to support ourselves on what we have saved as
well as social security. My wife defers the maximum into her company's Thrift Plan
and I defer as much as I can into my SEP IRA. We have rolled over the 401k’s
from all of our previous employers so we can keep an eye on all of our assets
in one place. In terms of retirement planning, I will give myself a check for
doing the right thing.
Insofar as estate planning is concerned, I will also give myself a check. Our
estate is not much of an estate but we have done the basics: bought life insurance; established
wills; and arranged a power of attorney and healthcare proxies.
Saving for our kids' college has proven harder than I previously imagined. As a parent with
two kids in college and one in 10th grade, I can safely say that no
matter how much you save for your child's higher education it's probably not enough. There is the known quantity
of tuition, but housing costs vary and books and course packets are very
expensive. There are social dues if your child joins a fraternity or sorority,
and grocery and cable bills if they live off campus. There are
spring breaks to pay for, as well as plane rides home for the holidays. Have we saved enough for college?
No. We did start 529 plans when our children were young - and our kids'
grandparents have contributed - but we will still fall short. I will give myself
half a check for college savings.
When it comes to budgeting household expenses, we've struggled. As a financial advisor, I preach living within your means. Nothing
will get you closer to your financial goal like living within or below your
means. One of the great challenges I have is understanding the difference between a need
and a want. I want stuff because it makes me temporarily happy, but do
I really need it? Wants are like milkshakes. You love them, they taste amazing,
but they are not necessarily good for you. How do you eliminate the wants when you
only get one life to live? So yes, I get a Starbucks in the morning and own
more shoes than I need. Only half a check.
Living within your means is living within your income,
but how do you budget for non-reimbursable healthcare costs, a broken furnace,
or taking care of an elderly parent? It’s not easy unless you can save more from each
pay check.
I am a big fan of the financial writer Carl Richards.
One of his greatest columns was in the New York Times a few years ago. It was
an honest and personal account of a failed endeavor in which he lost his home http://nyti.ms/1y2qJL0. As a financial writer and advisor it must
have been very difficult to come to terms with such a mistake. Carl has
recovered and is probably doing better than ever. I am sure that what he
learned from this error has made him a better advisor, listener, and colleague.
It’s a challenge every day to improve oneself. But if we are any good at what we do, we must learn from and embrace our mistakes. I should have saved more for college and I shouldn’t carry a balance on my credit card, but I am human.